Sunday, 11 January 2015

How to select your swimsuit to match your anatomy?

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Swimsuits are very much personal and they cling to your body covering only the essential parts of your body and also those part that you want not to be exposed. Selecting a swimsuit is a tricky affair as when you go out in a swimsuit and dive into a pool, people are bound to watch and you would certainly not like your looks be compromised with what suit you are wearing.


You could be short or tall with small or big boobs and whatever you are the right selection process of swim suit enables you to highlight only those things that are attractive in your body. There are various types of boobs and some might sit very tight on your chest, some might hang and wobble as you move around. Some boobs might require a push up, some require restraints, some bobs need to be exaggerated, so me might need a little bit of hiding.

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You might think that your body is not fit enough to wear a swimsuit. Or you might think that a swim suit might make you look ugly exposing the parts that you think are your negative points. In that case you will be missing the crucial and enjoyable experience of having fun in water in a pool side or in beach. You will find yourself just sitting under an umbrella, sweating and watching others having fun in water.

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The swimsuit you buy should give you the confidence to present your body to the preying eyes in a swimming event or in a swimming party in pool or beach.

 Tropiculture Black Crossover Swimsuit

Selecting the right fabric:

The fabric you select has to be comfortable to you and that is the first and the foremost thing that you have to consider before buying a swimsuit. If you are a swimmer regular in beaches or pool then the color of the swimsuit might get faded away in time. There are lots of brands in the market that provide swimsuits that are UV rays protected.

If you are slim and have a tight and not so bouncing boobs then you may not have to select a swimsuit without boob support. That would be more comfortable to wear and you can relax with it for a long time.

Drying time is a very important factor. The swimsuit you are wearing has to dry off quickly when you finish your swim and relax taking a sun bath.

 Shore Club Paradise Cove Halter Swimdress

Swim suits that retain more moisture makes your swimsuit sticky over your body that make you feel uncomfortable.

If you are over sized and have big and bouncing boobs, then no problem, just get a suit with a boobs support. The boobs support come in different styles depending upon your requirement.

If you have boobs like hanging garden then a  bit of pushing up action might be required and putting them in a prominent spot.

Not everyone will be gifted with a flat belly. Swimsuits have a tendency of making a big protruding belly more prominent that you may not like. In this case you can go for swimsuits frills, patterns and textures below the waist.

Tightness at the waist line is also important and this has to be decided according to the size and the way you want to make them look seductive and sexy.

 Swim Sexy Glamour Underwire High Waist Bikini

I have personally selected some good swimsuits that are cheap, trendy and fashionable. And I have made my selections in such a way that most of the body structures are covered.

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Friday, 9 January 2015

How to prepare for a crossdressing session?

How to prepare for a crossdressing session

As a part time cross dresser I used to cross dress only when I am on official tours, After finishing my work I go for shopping to buy all the essential things and back in the hotel room I will finish dinner and then would start cross dressing. I have done so for most of the 7 or 8 years I have been doing cross dressing seriously.

Even though I am pretty much experienced in doing this, every time I used to forget certain things that I would realize only when the necessity for that particular thing arises. That one particular thing could have the importance of spoiling the entire session. Even after experiencing the same for a number of times I am almost lazy to write down  a list to make it easy for shopping for a session. I know most of the cross dressers or even genetic females would have come across similar experiences. So How to prepare for a crossdressing session?

How to prepare for a crossdressing session?

So at last I am sharing this blog with a check list of things that you have to keep ready before attempting cross dressing. They could be very basic things and you might think why I am taking the strain of sharing the information. But I have seen even tiny things causing big set backs in sessions and I am sure you knew most of the things  that I am going to say here. But there will also be certain things that discovered myself during my sessions and photo shooting and I am sharing them also.


Dress is the first and foremost of the things that you need for cross dressing. First decide what do you want to wear. It could be a saree, night gown, jeans or dress or chudidhars or tops, For all the dresses, the basic requirement is a Bra and Panty. To choose the right bra, you can just go through my post Types of Bras - Get closer to your dreams. Panty size should be a size lesser than your brief size. 

Being in India, I always decide whether it is going to be saree or a modern dress. Since I always prefer saree there are certain things that have to  be purchased while purchasing a saree. Without them you cannot fully accomplish wearing of saree. Basic things are the Bra and Panty as told earlier and other important thing that is required is in-skirt and Blouse. In-skirts will be available ready made in almost all female dress shops in India and you can get them very easily. But getting a ready made blouse is a big problem. If you have time and facility you can stitch your blouse or tops. If that is not the case and ready made is also not available then you will have to just manage with Bra or even try a tops that goes tight with your body.

If you are in other country like US or UK or Saudi or France, then you can decide about the dress according to your taste and culture and purchase them. 

Coconut Oil:

This is one of the essential things that you should never forget during cross dressing.
There are many uses for this.
You can apply coconut oil thoroughly over your legs and shave off the hair. This gives a smooth and glossy finish to your legs.
You can apply coconut oil to your face and keep it for some time before washing with soap. Your face will glow if you do this.
After you finish the cross dressing session, you can use coconut oil to remove the make-up and believe me it is the best and natural way of removing the make up.

Foundation: Select the foundation shade that suits the color of your skin. 
Make-up Box: There are make-up boxes that contain almost everything that you need for make up like powder, blush, eye shades, lip stick etc.
Lip stick: You can buy a separate lipstick even if you have purchased a make-up Box so as to suit your dress that you are going to wear that particular day.\
Kajal, Eye liner and Eyebrow pencil - all the three are equally important to make your eyes attractive.
Hair Pins: This is one of the things that I almost forget every time and face with lots of difficulties while wearing my wigs. 
Safety Pin: This is also an important thing that could be handy in many ways.
Nail Polish: Select the color that suits the dress that you are going to wear. I normally do not apply nail polish while I am cross dressing as I think my nails look better without them but as most of the cross dressers want to decorate their nails I am including it in my list.
Tattoos and stickers: These would give a different look to you.

I am also planning to start a tutorial for cross dressing through videos where I will be dressing up a young and attractive and entirely a new face. She is not only a cross dresser but also a would be transgender. Please wait for that moment when I introduce that attractive new comer who would capture all your hearts.

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Monday, 5 January 2015

Monalisa in Seductive Gypsy dress - 12 pics

When I was in Rajasthan I once wanted to try wearing the local gypsy dress and here I am. It was a colorful orange dress that covered most of my body. What the hell? there is nothing wrong in exposing a bit of it for my fans. First my thigh, back and then to thighs .....Trace through my body with these photos to the ultimate pleasure that ever exists in this world..
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Sunday, 4 January 2015

10 Reasons why a transgender could be your best life partner

Transgenders have the unique distinction of having lived two different lives. Initially they are born as males and later on when they find their inner self is more feminine they change their identity either clinically or by just dressing like a female and start living like a female. In either case they are basically males according to nature and whatever happens to their psychology and physique, changes them not so fully as females as they could not acquire most of the female body traits. They could not become pregnant and give birth to children as genetic females do.

Being born as a male and due to social conditions and restrictions many of the cross dressers or transgenders could not convert themselves completely into females clinically. I belong to that category and I know I could never afford to even plan for a complete change over like that. People like me live a dual life of being a male to the external world and female in the inner secrets of the soul.

I have often wondered why males are preferring genetic females as life partners. If not for the advantage of presenting with children there seems to be no real reason behind their fantasy for genetic females. But having lived the lives of both male and female in this short life transgenders and cross dressers possess a rich experience of understanding the minds of a male as themselves are males originally.

Here are some facts that a male could consider before deciding on a life partner:

  1. Genetic females are more self centered and they always think only about themselves and their benefits. 
  2. Females could not understand the inner feelings of the males as their intention of making males understand their own feelings, takes one complete life time to get completed. 
  3. No male in this world could confidently tell that hey have understood a female fully. Because females are like closed shells and we all believe that beneath that real beauty lies and unfortunately without opening or seeing their inner minds our life gets wasted. But the curiosity remains and till the time we die we try to understand the female mind but we fail miserable and die without knowing that.
  4. Genetic females are self possessive and never go all the way to help others. there could be exceptions but I am talking in general.
  5. Love of genetic females shift from one person to person during their course of life. First they want their husband exactly like their father.When they actually get married they try to change the nature and life style of the males to suit their needs and beliefs. Then their love shifts to the children and try to mold the child into a person whom they always dreamed about. 
  6. Females have a liking for their own beauty and consider males as servants created by god to serve their beauty.
  7. Their sharp tongue more often hurts males and make them sick than any other dangerous creatures in the world.
  8. Females estimate males based on their money making capability and if a male fails in making the required money he would be insulted and in many cases discarded.
  9. Genetic females have no understanding about knowledge and the capability of mind. The more intellectual you are, the more they will hate you.
  10. Females are the licensed police dwelling inside your house. They would leave nothing as personal and would like to know about anything and everything about you. And in the process would make your life a hell.
  11. As the females want to know all about yourself, it does not mean that they would offer an opportunity to understand about their inner thoughts. They want to know everything and at the same want to hide everything about themselves. If you go a bit further and try to understand about them, you will be accused of prying into their personal life.
  12. You are required to offer them gifts and presents on special occasion and happy moments to keep them satisfied. If they are in bad mood or in sorrow you are still expected to present them with something that would make them smile.

Contrary to this transgenders are born with a curse who cannot live as a full fledged male or female.

  1. They also get the advantage of leading both the lives of a male and also a female.
  2. They understand well about a male as they themselves were males once.
  3. Transgenders always want to prove to the world and also to their partners that they are better than the genetic females and would go to any extent to prove that and make you more happy.
  4. Transgenders know that money is not everything and here is much more to life than just earning money because they have experienced the cruelty of nature that any amount of money could change.
  5. Transgenders know exactly a man wants from a girl and would offer that without without any resistance.
  6. They also know what a man does not expect from a girl that would make his life a hell and would certainly not give that to you.