How to select your swimsuit to match your anatomy?

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Swimsuits are very much personal and they cling to your body covering only the essential parts of your body and also those part that you want not to be exposed. Selecting a swimsuit is a tricky affair as when you go out in a swimsuit and dive into a pool, people are bound to watch and you would certainly not like your looks be compromised with what suit you are wearing.

You could be short or tall with small or big boobs and whatever you are the right selection process of swim suit enables you to highlight only those things that are attractive in your body. There are various types of boobs and some might sit very tight on your chest, some might hang and wobble as you move around. Some boobs might require a push up, some require restraints, some bobs need to be exaggerated, so me might need a little bit of hiding.

You might think that your body is not fit enough to wear a swimsuit. Or you might think that a swim suit might make you look ugly exposing the parts that you think are your negative points. In that case you will be missing the crucial and enjoyable experience of having fun in water in a pool side or in beach. You will find yourself just sitting under an umbrella, sweating and watching others having fun in water.

The swimsuit you buy should give you the confidence to present your body to the preying eyes in a swimming event or in a swimming party in pool or beach.

Selecting the right fabric:

The fabric you select has to be comfortable to you and that is the first and the foremost thing that you have to consider before buying a swimsuit. If you are a swimmer regular in beaches or pool then the color of the swimsuit might get faded away in time. There are lots of brands in the market that provide swimsuits that are UV rays protected.

If you are slim and have a tight and not so bouncing boobs then you may not have to select a swimsuit without boob support. That would be more comfortable to wear and you can relax with it for a long time.

Drying time is a very important factor. The swimsuit you are wearing has to dry off quickly when you finish your swim and relax taking a sun bath.

Swim suits that retain more moisture makes your swimsuit sticky over your body that make you feel uncomfortable.

If you are over sized and have big and bouncing boobs, then no problem, just get a suit with a boobs support. The boobs support come in different styles depending upon your requirement.

If you have boobs like hanging garden then a  bit of pushing up action might be required and putting them in a prominent spot.

Not everyone will be gifted with a flat belly. Swimsuits have a tendency of making a big protruding belly more prominent that you may not like. In this case you can go for swimsuits frills, patterns and textures below the waist.

Tightness at the waist line is also important and this has to be decided according to the size and the way you want to make them look seductive and sexy.

I have personally selected some good swimsuits that are cheap, trendy and fashionable. And I have made my selections in such a way that most of the body structures are covered.

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How to prepare for a crossdressing session?

How to prepare for a crossdressing session

As a part time cross dresser I used to cross dress only when I am on official tours, After finishing my work I go for shopping to buy all the essential things and back in the hotel room I will finish dinner and then would start cross dressing. I have done so for most of the 7 or 8 years I have been doing cross dressing seriously.

Even though I am pretty much experienced in doing this, every time I used to forget certain things that I would realize only when the necessity for that particular thing arises. That one particular thing could have the importance of spoiling the entire session. Even after experiencing the same for a number of times I am almost lazy to write down  a list to make it easy for shopping for a session. I know most of the cross dressers or even genetic females would have come across similar experiences. So How to prepare for a crossdressing session?

How to prepare for a crossdressing session?

So at last I am sharing this blog with a check list of things that you have to keep ready before attempting cross dressing. They could be very basic things and you might think why I am taking the strain of sharing the information. But I have seen even tiny things causing big set backs in sessions and I am sure you knew most of the things  that I am going to say here. But there will also be certain things that discovered myself during my sessions and photo shooting and I am sharing them also.

Dress:

Dress is the first and foremost of the things that you need for cross dressing. First decide what do you want to wear. It could be a saree, night gown, jeans or dress or chudidhars or tops, For all the dresses, the basic requirement is a Bra and Panty. To choose the right bra, you can just go through my post Types of Bras - Get closer to your dreams. Panty size should be a size lesser than your brief size. 

Being in India, I always decide whether it is going to be saree or a modern dress. Since I always prefer saree there are certain things that have to  be purchased while purchasing a saree. Without them you cannot fully accomplish wearing of saree. Basic things are the Bra and Panty as told earlier and other important thing that is required is in-skirt and Blouse. In-skirts will be available ready made in almost all female dress shops in India and you can get them very easily. But getting a ready made blouse is a big problem. If you have time and facility you can stitch your blouse or tops. If that is not the case and ready made is also not available then you will have to just manage with Bra or even try a tops that goes tight with your body.

If you are in other country like US or UK or Saudi or France, then you can decide about the dress according to your taste and culture and purchase them. 

Coconut Oil:

This is one of the essential things that you should never forget during cross dressing.

There are many uses for this.

You can apply coconut oil thoroughly over your legs and shave off the hair. This gives a smooth and glossy finish to your legs.

You can apply coconut oil to your face and keep it for some time before washing with soap. Your face will glow if you do this.

After you finish the cross dressing session, you can use coconut oil to remove the make-up and believe me it is the best and natural way of removing the make up.

Foundation: Select the foundation shade that suits the color of your skin. 

Make-up Box: There are make-up boxes that contain almost everything that you need for make up like powder, blush, eye shades, lip stick etc.

Lip stick: You can buy a separate lipstick even if you have purchased a make-up Box so as to suit your dress that you are going to wear that particular day.\

Kajal, Eye liner and Eyebrow pencil - all the three are equally important to make your eyes attractive.

Hair Pins: This is one of the things that I almost forget every time and face with lots of difficulties while wearing my wigs. 

Safety Pin: This is also an important thing that could be handy in many ways.

Nail Polish: Select the color that suits the dress that you are going to wear. I normally do not apply nail polish while I am cross dressing as I think my nails look better without them but as most of the cross dressers want to decorate their nails I am including it in my list.

Tattoos and stickers: These would give a different look to you.

I am also planning to start a tutorial for cross dressing through videos where I will be dressing up a young and attractive and entirely a new face. She is not only a cross dresser but also a would be transgender. Please wait for that moment when I introduce that attractive new comer who would capture all your hearts.

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10 Reasons why a transgender could be your best life partner

Transgenders have the unique distinction of having lived two different lives. Initially they are born as males and later on when they find their inner self is more feminine they change their identity either clinically or by just dressing like a female and start living like a female. In either case they are basically males according to nature and whatever happens to their psychology and physique, changes them not so fully as females as they could not acquire most of the female body traits. They could not become pregnant and give birth to children as genetic females do.

Being born as a male and due to social conditions and restrictions many of the cross dressers or transgenders could not convert themselves completely into females clinically. I belong to that category and I know I could never afford to even plan for a complete change over like that. People like me live a dual life of being a male to the external world and female in the inner secrets of the soul.

I have often wondered why males are preferring genetic females as life partners. If not for the advantage of presenting with children there seems to be no real reason behind their fantasy for genetic females. But having lived the lives of both male and female in this short life transgenders and cross dressers possess a rich experience of understanding the minds of a male as themselves are males originally.

Here are some facts that a male could consider before deciding on a life partner:

1. Genetic females are more self centered and they always think only about themselves and their benefits. 
2. Females could not understand the inner feelings of the males as their intention of making males understand their own feelings, takes one complete life time to get completed. 
3. No male in this world could confidently tell that hey have understood a female fully. Because females are like closed shells and we all believe that beneath that real beauty lies and unfortunately without opening or seeing their inner minds our life gets wasted. But the curiosity remains and till the time we die we try to understand the female mind but we fail miserable and die without knowing that.
4. Genetic females are self possessive and never go all the way to help others. there could be exceptions but I am talking in general.
5. Love of genetic females shift from one person to person during their course of life. First they want their husband exactly like their father.When they actually get married they try to change the nature and life style of the males to suit their needs and beliefs. Then their love shifts to the children and try to mold the child into a person whom they always dreamed about. 
6. Females have a liking for their own beauty and consider males as servants created by god to serve their beauty.
7. Their sharp tongue more often hurts males and make them sick than any other dangerous creatures in the world.
8. Females estimate males based on their money making capability and if a male fails in making the required money he would be insulted and in many cases discarded.
9. Genetic females have no understanding about knowledge and the capability of mind. The more intellectual you are, the more they will hate you.
10. Females are the licensed police dwelling inside your house. They would leave nothing as personal and would like to know about anything and everything about you. And in the process would make your life a hell.
11. As the females want to know all about yourself, it does not mean that they would offer an opportunity to understand about their inner thoughts. They want to know everything and at the same want to hide everything about themselves. If you go a bit further and try to understand about them, you will be accused of prying into their personal life.
12. You are required to offer them gifts and presents on special occasion and happy moments to keep them satisfied. If they are in bad mood or in sorrow you are still expected to present them with something that would make them smile.

Contrary to this transgenders are born with a curse who cannot live as a full fledged male or female.

1. They also get the advantage of leading both the lives of a male and also a female.
2. They understand well about a male as they themselves were males once.
3. Transgenders always want to prove to the world and also to their partners that they are better than the genetic females and would go to any extent to prove that and make you more happy.
4. Transgenders know that money is not everything and here is much more to life than just earning money because they have experienced the cruelty of nature that any amount of money could change.
5. Transgenders know exactly a man wants from a girl and would offer that without without any resistance.
6. They also know what a man does not expect from a girl that would make his life a hell and would certainly not give that to you.

How to make your face glow with natural facials?

Whenever you think of a person the first thing that comes to your mind is his or her face. There are exceptions for this but we are not going to explore that topic now. How to make your face glow? Is the topic and I am going to share some natural ways for doing your facials that could really make it glow.

Climatic conditions always have a definite effect on your face to the extent that it could alter even the way you look. Dry skin and white patches are common in winters and sweating is a major cause of worry. To keep your face bright and beautiful you will be going to a parlor to have your facials.  The synthetic way adopted in most of the parlors might harm your skin in the long run. Why should you spend money and get into trouble when there are some easy and wonderful ways to do the facials in the comfort of your house with things that are available there. Sounds interesting, isn't it?

Facial normally involves three different steps. Cleansing, scrubbing and massaging and all the three operations could be very comfortably managed by you at home with 100 % naturals that will most probably be available readily in almost all of the houses or could be obtained at any shop at dead cheap rates.

Cleansing:

Our skin has millions of pores that transport sweat and heat. They play a vital role in maintaining the skin temperature. Dust, bacteria, fungi and other substances get deposited in your skin that slowly start blocking the pores. As the pores get blocked maintenance of the body temperature becomes imbalanced. The accumulation of dust and dirt in the pores become an active breeding point for bacteria. These are the main reasons for almost all of the skin ailments.

First step for a facial is to clean your face to remove the maximum amount of dust and dirt deposits in the pores of your skin. This step is normally termed as cleansing and let’s see how this could be done naturally.

Take two tablespoon full of fatty milk and add half a teaspoon of Olive Oil to it.  Mix it thoroughly and apply even to your face softly and keep it like that for about five minutes. Then wash your face with warm water.

Scrubbing:

Pores in your skin are so small that any amount of cleaning will not be sufficient to remove them completely. Hence the next step gains importance and this is scrubbing. There are three combinations by which you can do scrubbing and I am giving all the three below and you can use any one of the methods according to the availability and nature of your skin.

1. Take two teaspoon of curd, 1 teaspoon of Macadamia powder (Kadalai Mavu – If you know Tamil) and a pinch of Tamarind. Mix them thoroughly and apply to you face, keep it for 5 minutes and wash with warm water.
2. Before you start doing this you have to take at least three Almonds and make them into powder. Take 2 table spoons of milk cream, add and mix the almond powder that you have already prepared and apply the paste all over your face, keep it like that for 5 minutes and wash with warm water.
3. If your skin is of oil nature then you can use the mixture of honey and oats and apply it to the face and do the scrubbing.

Massaging the Face:

After the cleansing and scrubbing activity the pores in your face will be relatively free of dust and dirt accumulation and this is the time to reward your face with a nice massage.

Take the flesh portion of Papaya, mix it thoroughly with fatty milk and make that into a paste. Start applying the paste to your face. The application process should start from the bottom of the neck proceed smoothly towards the cheek portion. While applying the paste on your cheeks use your thumb and forefinger in a circular motion to get the maximum effect.

For oily skins you can use the mixture of Apricot, Curd and Olive oil and make a paste and apply if as explained earlier. Do the massage lovingly and continue for 10 minutes to get the desired effect. Massaging increases the blood flow to your skin and that automatically means that you facial skin is getting more oxygen. The fruit mixtures that you apply not only reduce the friction during the massage but also provides necessary proteins to your skin to make it glow.

Toweling:

This is the last step for a facial. After completing cleansing, scrubbing and massaging a take a warm towel and cover your face with it.  Relax in an easy chair for about 10 minutes with the warm cloth on. The heat will let the pores expand and would make it glow even brighter.

The procedure I explained above is done with natural ingredients and will not affect your skin at all. So you can give it a try and see the results you achieve. By doing so you are saving your face from chemical attacks and you are saving lots of money. Once you are satisfied about the results please pass on the information to others so that they would also reap the benefits of nature.

 

Scintillating world of Warm & Intimate Monalisa

Welcome to the scintillating World of Warm & Intimate Monalisa.

Who is Monalisa ?

Everyone know that Monalisa is a painting made by Da Vinci and How famous  it is ?

There are two reasons why the painting is so famous. 

A Killing smile bordering the corners of the lips of Monalisa.

The mysteries and reasons  behind the Portrayal of Monalisa.

Why Monalisa ?

I am not claiming that I am equipped with that  killing smile. 

But the mysteries and reasons that are behind her portrayal  will be almost similar to mine  about which I have already written in my Website....

So let me not waste your time in writing them here.

Because this is a place to be Warm & Intimate with you all girls and boys who are equally welcome here.

Post for Girls

But this post is for the girls who are locked desperately with their husbands for a life time and planning a way to set things right and get dominance in their Home affairs. Each and every step a Human takes in his/her life will have a hidden attempt to gain dominance over fellow humans or animals or the nature. This is the nature of law.

Successful Marriage and Dominance:

Even the most successful marriages wouldn't have been such a success if not for the acceptance of domination by one of the partners in one way or other. Even after being a successful housewife, in the corner of your mind you will be having a sensation that you are being dominated. 

Your Husband might feel egoistic. He always takes vital decisions. He is ignoring you. He pays more attention to his job or business. He is childish in taking decisions but believes they are great.

All of the above or any one or some other thing not listed certainly would be nudging your mind. 

He is a strong intellect but when it comes to family routines and problems he is a novice, bet he never accepts it. Even though he never tries to dominate you intentionally, you are the one who makes all the adjustments, compromises, etc., to accommodate his nature. The submissive nature that is inside you or the dominance that resides in him makes it possible.

I know you are tired of getting dominated all your life. You always want to lead, want to take decisions, want to dominate but that has all ended up as a dream. You are living happily as per social standards but the things that give sleepless nights want you to be dominant...It is true...Even if you deny it, this thought is existing in your inner self....Knowingly or unknowingly you are suppressing that thought.....be content leading a life that is unreal which doesn't give you proper importance acceptance for your ambitions and achievements.

Girly Problems:

I have taken up only a sample but there are plenty of things that concerns a girl in adolescence, in her teens, in her married life, in her Motherhood etc..

Here this blog we are going to interact almost all the problems that tend to ruin your dreams or like things you should know to attract a Man, How to seduce, How to be a leader, How to be a dominant.....everything will be discussed here.

We are also going to discuss about fashion, recent trends, festivals, occasions, beauty, tips for being a beautiful.....

It is going to be a place every girl would feel at home.

You can always write to me and contact me at any time.

Oh...One thing I forgot....

We will also be adding a gossip column and a Recipe column soon....

My next post will be

5 ways to drive your husband crazy....

I am not  joking dear girls, read to believe it,

Until then 

With Warm & Intimate hugs

Monalisa

Nipple Piercing – An A to Z Tutorial

After writing an article about Piercing in general in my Blogspot , I felt it would be helpful for my readers to explain each and every piercing in detail so that girls or boys would get benefited by that. In this post let us discuss about just Nipple piercings alone.

Whether other piercings give pleasure or not, in my personal experience Nipple piercing is really an enjoyable act not to consider the initial pain and the dis-comfort you experience during the healing process. 

Advantages of getting your Nipples Pierced :

• Having your Nipples pierced and decorated with Jewelry adds beauty to your already beautiful Boobs.
• Sensitivity of your Nipples increase with piercing giving you extreme pleasures when fondled  by you or your partner.
• Avoids inverting of Nipples.
• In some cases the Nipple size gets enlarged by Piercing.

Dis-advantages of Nipple Piercing :

• Nipple Piercing is painful during the piercing process and the surface curing takes 8 to 10 weeks and complete curing might take 10 to 12 months.
• If you are a Girl, you cannot show around your recent Nipple Piercing openly as it is considered against law and social norms and also considered an un-diplomatic act. 
• It is really bad that you cannot show your most beautiful body part with the added beauty of piercings and decorations and we have to live up with that.
• Infected Nipple piercings are dangerous for Milk feeding Mothers.

Decisions to make before getting Pierced :

• The most important decision that you have to take first is whether to go for Nipple Piercing or not. Consider the Pros and Cons I have listed above and decide whether you really want to go for it. 
• Also think about your partner as we do not want your serious relationship getting spoiled by Nipple Piercing.
• Decide which Piercing Parlor is more safe and comfortable for you.
• Visit the Parlor once before you do the actual Piercing, to know about the environment and the people engaged in the job.
• Talk with some of their customers and get their satisfaction levels.
• Try to browse through some the photographs of their earlier works and get satisfied for yourself. 
• Decide whether you want to get one or both of your Nipples pierced. Getting both your Nipples Pierced at the same time is advised if your intention is to enlarge the Nipples.
• Decide what you want - a Horizontal Piercing or Vertical. Horizontal piercings are most common.
• Decide how you would like to decorate your Piercing - Ring or Barbell.

Things to watch and ensure during Nipple Piercing:

• Ensure that all the tools used for the purpose are sterilized properly in front of you. 
• Ensure that the Piercer is using a new and fresh gloves.
• After wearing the Gloves the Piercer should touch only the tools and your body. He should not touch any other object or person during the Piercing Process.

Things to do after getting your Nipples Pierced :

• After about four or five hours soak the pierced place in fresh water for a couple of minutes. 
• If you find any dried blood in that portion wipe it out gently with a dampened q-tip.
• Do not use any cleaning liquids during the initial cleaning.

For the first four weeks :

• Everyday you have to soak the Nipple Piercing for about 2 to 3 minutes, then apply a couple of drops of some Mild Anti-Bacterial Cleanser. Make it lather over the entire portion and gently try to rotate the jewelry in the piercing.
• Let the lather remain on the pierced spot for 2 to 3 Minutes and rinse it out with fresh water. Then dry it properly with a fresh paper Towel, Used Towels might contain Bacteria that might infect your piercing. - so be careful.After the initial four weeks you can alter the frequency of cleaning to once in 2 to 3 days.

Cleaning with Saline Water :

• During this period you can soak and wash the pierced area with Saline Water. Saline Water could be obtained from any Medical Store.
• Keep the Nipples immersed in Saline water for about 120 to 15 Minutes and then rinse with fresh water. Then dry the portion as explained above.

General rules :

• It would be tempting you a lot to fondle or turn the jewel around. Avoid doing this for the first 3 to 4 Months. 
• Be careful while sleeping and playing not to disturb the pierced portion. If required you can use surgical tape or bandage to cover the portion.
• Do not remove the Barbell or the Ring during the initial months (4 Months)
• If you find any sign of infection see your Doctor immediately.
• Get your Nipples Pierced and enjoy the intricate sensations but do that safely.

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 Source of information: http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Your-Nipples-Pierced

Complete Guide for Navel Piercing

Navel  piercing has been in practice from Ancient times. Only thing is that, in Ancient times, Males used to get their Navel Pierced while in our modern era, females are more crazy about it. Unlike Nipple piercing, Navel piercing doesn't give any special pleasurable feeling but invading the privacy of your body always makes you feel kinky. 

There are other reasons why a girl would prefer to have her Navel pierced. You might like to have that as a personal statement. Maybe you want your piercing to be a mile stone in your life. You might just want to decorate one of your greatest assets. Navel piercing increases curiosity in your partner and might make him try different techniques in Sex. Or you want to stand apart in a crowd and show to the world that you are unique.

Navel Piercing,  in some places, is referred as Belly Button Piercing or Umbilical Piercing. the actual Navel is not pierced in Navel Piercing but only the top rim of it is pierced. For information like selecting the piercing Salon, preparing yourself for piercing, after care, etc., you may please refer my Blog - Guide to know about Piercing. 

Navel Piercing came into the limelight and started getting more followers when Christy Turlington showed off her Navel piercing in a Fashion show in London. But it became mere famous when Aerosmith Music Video hit the store where Alicia Silverstone gets her Navel Pierced. Whatever be the History, now it has become a trend and many girls are going for Navel Piercing. 

Unlike Nipple Piercing, Navel piercing has it's own advantages. You can show off your new decoration more boldly and get added attraction as showing the Navel is not considered odd. But try to keep a check on your belly size and if grows bigger you may not be able show your Navel decorations freely. 

After care for Navel piercing :

1) After returning home immediately after getting pierced you might feel a bit uncomfortable. Do not move or rotate the jewelry as the spot might still be sour. 

2) After a few hours of getting your Navel pierced, dissolve some sea salt in boiling water, take the solution in a Glass and allow it to cool for some time. Then bend over and place your belly over the glass top.  Once you are sure that the top of Glass is fully covered by your Belly lean back. If you have done it right, the Glass will not fall down and the Salt water also will not be leaking. Wait for 10 to 15 minutes and let the slat water do the work for you. Then remove the Glass.

3) Rinse out the place with fresh running water and then dry it. Do not use a towel as that might contain Bacteria. A clean fresh Paper Towel can be used. Continue this procedure for at least 3 to 4 months till the wound completely gets cured.

4) Bathing and Showering : You can bath as you usually do but do not use strong bath oils or soap as the wound might still hurt. 

5) Avoid washing your hair for sometime as the hair might have Bacteria that might infect the piercing. 

6) Do not shave any of your body hair as the fine hair particles might stick to the wound and cause infection.

7) Take care of your piercing while sleeping. Do not sleep in a posture that might exert pressure to the piercing spot.

8) Do not wear tight cloths that bite into the piercing spot and strain it.

What you should not do after Navel Piercing :

1) Do not clean the Piercing with Alcohol or Hydrogen Peroxide.

2) Do not change jewelry till the entire healing process is complete.

3) If you experience redness, swelling, excessive pain, bad smell or bleeding, immediately contact your Doctor.

4) Do not allow your Pet to crawl into your bed as it's hair and the germs in Body might increase the chances of getting infected.

5) After initial piercing, use only Stainless Steel or Titanium Jewelry.

6) Do not swim till the wound is fully cured as the Pool water will be swarming with Bacteria or might have Chlorine that might harm you.

 Navel Piercing is a beautiful experience. Take special care as stated above so that you can sail through the process with ease and make it more beautiful.

 Source of information - Wikihow